Are you lost in despair waiting for someone to come along to save you? To get you out of your hopeless situation, whether it is a broken relationship, an unfilled career or a life with no purpose.
Let me tell you up front. No one is going to save you. You have to save yourself! People may help you along the way but it is up to you to have the courage to take the first steps and start your journey towards healing yourself and finding the true you.
The reason for this is you have to be ready to receive guidance and inspiration so you can change. This requires you to change from a victim mindset to a growth mindset. A growth mindset is the belief you can develop into your potential through taking every opportunity to learn and take action towards self-growth.
How do you go about taking the first steps?
Let go of your 'victim' story you are telling yourself. This can be done through journaling, working through it with a coach or therapist, or through a cleansing ritual with affirmations.
Acknowledge who you are and where you want to be in the future (say five years from now)
Identify a series of steps towards this future and set a timeframe for each step.
Choose how you are going to move forward in your personal development (e.g. self-help books, 1 on 1 coaching, group coaching, podcasts). This might take some experimentation to see what works for you.
Draw up a schedule to fit in time for your personal development each week to ensure you take the required action.
Are you ready to let your old self go and trust the process?
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